∵∠BDE=45°,DE⊥BC∴DB= 2 BE,BE=DE∵DE⊥BC,BF⊥CD∴∠BEH=∠DEC=90°∵∠BHE=∠DHF∴∠EBH=∠CDE∴△BEH≌△DEC∴∠BHE=∠C,BH=CD∵?ABCD中∴∠C=∠A,AB=CD∴∠A=∠BHE,AB=BH∴正确的有①②③故选B.