面子/Mianzi (Face)
The idea of shame, usually expressed as 'face' could be loosely defined as the 'status' or 'self-respect' in Chinese and by no means alien to foreigners. It is the worst thing for a Chinese to lose face. Never insult, embarrass, shame, yell at or otherwise demean a person. Since all these actions would risk putting a Chinese in a situation that he might lose face. Neither try to prove someone wrong nor shout at him in public. In order to get a successful effect without letting a Chinese lose face, any criticism should be delivered privately, discreetly and tactfully, or else, just opposite to what you wish.
羞耻这个概念，通常被表达为“面子”。在中文中大致的含义是“地位”或者“自尊”，这和外国人的观念并不相同。在中国，最糟糕的事莫过于失了面子。所以，千万不要对一个人进行侮辱、羞辱或者对其大吼，让其尴尬等。因为这样会让一个中国人感觉到失了面子。千万不要证明某人错了，或者在公共场合对其吼叫。为了能有效的传达意见而不让中国人丢了面子，任何的批评都应该私下传递，而且方式要巧妙而谨慎。否则，你将事与愿违。
关系/Guanxi (Relationships between People)
Throughout much of Chinese history, the fundamental glue that has held society together is the concept of guanxi, relationships between people. It is very important for the Chinese to have good relationships. They often regard good social relations as a symbol of personal ability and influence. Someone who has no connections would be despised and is only half-Chinese.
纵贯中国的历史，一个维系社会的基本粘合剂就是关系这个概念，也就是人与人之间的关联。对中国人来说，有良好的关系是十分重要的。他们往往将拥有良好的社会关系看成是一个人能力和影响力的象征。一个毫无关系的人将会被轻视，而且最多只能算半个中国人。
客气/Keqi
Keqi not only means considerate, polite, and well mannered, but also represents humbleness and modesty. It is impolite to be arrogant and brag about oneself or one's inner circle. The expression is most often used in the negative, as in buyao keqi, meaning "you shouldn't be so kind and polite to me," or "you're welcome."
客气并不只是包含考虑周详、礼貌文雅和举止端详，还表现在谦逊和谨慎。对自己或者自己的圈内人表达的傲慢或者自夸都是不礼貌的。表达的时候，通常要以否定的形式，比如“不要客气”，意思是说“你不必对我这么关心、礼貌”或“不用谢”。
Besides, Chinese seldom express what they think directly and they prefer a roundabout way. Neither show their emotions and feelings in public. They rarely greet people with a handshake, though it is very popular among foreigners, say nothing of embracing or kissing when greeting or saying good-bye. Consequently, it is better not to behave too carefree in public, even though you are well-intentioned. Also, it is advisable to be fairly cautious in political discussions. Do not particularly push yourself forward, or else you are unwelcome.
此外，中国人很少直接表达自己的想法，而喜欢用侧敲旁击的方式。从不在公共场合表现自己的情绪或者感觉。尽管在西方握手的见面礼非常普遍，但在中国这样做的人还不是很多，更不用说见面和道别时的拥抱和亲吻了。因此，即使你是出于好意，在公共场合也不要表现的太自由自在。同样，在政治话题上保持相对慎重也是明智的。不要太特立独行，否则你将会是不受欢迎的。
Chinese table etiquette boils down to the following points:
1. Admission etiquette. Ask guests seated on the seats. Please elderly guests in attendance were seated next to attendance at from the left side into the chair. Admission Dongkuaizi not after. What more do not come to beep. Not to get up walk. If what happened to the owner notice.
Second, when the meal. Ask guests. Long the Dongkuaizi. Jiacai, each less. Far from the food on their own eat some. Meal not a voice. Heshang also not a sound use Kaitang I spoon a small drink and a small mouth. Pawan front-lips not drink, soup, hot cool after Zaikai. side not to drink while blowing Some people prefer to chew food to eat. extraordinary feel like work is crisp chewing food, a very clear voices. this is not etiquette demands. extraordinary and everyone is eating together, as far as possible to prevent the emergence of this phenomenon.
Third: Do not eat hiccup, other voices will not arise if there sneezing, Changming involuntarily, such as the sound, it is necessary to say "I am sorry."; I am sorry;. "Of the original cooler." Within the words . to show regret.
Fourth if guests or elders give cloth dish. Best use of chopsticks may also be the guests or elders far away from the dishes to their front, according to the habit of the Chinese nation. Dish is a one of the Top. If the same tables leadership, the elderly, the guests said. Whenever of a new dish, let them first Dongkuaizi. rotation or invite them to the first Dongkuaizi. to show their importance.
Fifth: eat the head, fishbone, bones and other objects, not Wangwaimian vomit, not onto the ground still. Slowly to get their hands Diezili, or close on their own or on Canzhuobian prepared beforehand good on paper.
Sixth: To a timely manner about the time and people just a few humorous, to reconcile the atmosphere. Guangzhaotou not eat, regardless of others, and do not devour and destroy the lavish meal, not jail sentence.
7: It is best not to the dinner table Tiya if it is to Tiya, will use napkins or sign blocked their mouths.
8: To clear the main tasks of the meal. Must be clear to do business oriented. Feelings or to the main contact. Mainly or to eat. If it is the former, when attention should be paid to the seating arrangements. Their main negotiators the seats near each other to facilitate conversations, or dredge emotion. If it is the after. need only pay attention to common-sense courtesy on the line, to focus on the appreciation of dishes,
9: The last time left. Must be expressed gratitude to the host. At the invitation of the owner or to their own homes after the house to show back
China is the etiquette of helping people, Minsishiweitian, dining How can no rules! While stressing that no attention is three meals a day, but do not know know better than OK!
1. Inviting guests to notice, Ruxi 6:00, 5:50才叫your elderly guests, it does not. 2. Hosts who looked to be late; guests should be 5-10 minutes late, and this is very considerate guests Oh, and pay attention to grasp, natural host and the guest are Huan. 3. If sit round a table, facing the door of the main blocks, or back * walls, counters; emphasize some hotels will be used napkins distinction, the highest position napkins can not casually sit Oh, unless you intend to good banquet woven?: D
4. Masters of the subject and object of the right hand side, the left hand side of the important guests; * gate facing the master, of course, is run errands entertain the Peiqia sit you. 5. Guests do not directly to the members of a la carte and calling guidance, obediently waiting for the hosts who looked to be a la carte if guests really serious taboos or hobbies, and should be gently told the hosts who looked, the owner of natural putting his interests and meet guests little or significantly requirements. 6. Hosts who looked not need points or less grasping points, or holding food dishes, such as crab, lobster legs, ribs, and so on. For a meal to the three dishes such a rule no. What can be said etiquette! 7. Not a small amount of force will not object to others drink wine without fragmentation feast! 8. On the wine servings! Foreigner likes to boast of skill, people may boast their own point-for the food, hosts who looked at carefully observed Liangcai Qi, every Cup have drinks later, when immediately drank to welcome the start. . . Like, rotating disk or right hand side indicate the subject and object moving first chopsticks. Tuirang subject and object should not be too long, oh, we stomachs are hungry, it will eat you open! Do not forget to eat the praise of some oh. 9. After one of every dish, although the waiter and owner will still go before the subject and object, but not too rigidly stick with you, if just in front of me, dead people rotating disc, I would first folder a small taste of chopsticks ! 10. Hosts who looked often to the disk will cater to the vast majority of guests; Peiqia then added services to entertain; guests can not touch the hands of disk integrity and eat meals, the two sides are also Huan you. 11. If there is no attendant at the food or chopsticks, Gongbiao, Jiacai the first time can be good, must not use their own chopsticks to pick in the session to pick, and even stirring! Not everyone is like love, like you do not mind the saliva chopsticks! Usually identified from their recent selection part. 12. Let chopsticks on the best food in their transition to a dish in only into the mouth. Phase seem to be eating is not so urgent. 13. When chewing food in the mouth, remember Bijin lips is a major event, so to speak, falling objects, Shishui spills, as well as to avoid a "Puma Puma Ji Ji" annoyance beep. 14. During the meal, or both before and after the meal, should be back straight, as far as possible but not later * chairs sit. During the meal, basically in the hands above the desktop. 15. The master of a very good appetite, and weight loss are guests, not the Fanju oh.
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