(1)证明:∵?ABCD,∴AD=BC,AB=DC,AB∥DC,∵AF平分∠DAB,∴∠DAF=∠BAF,∵AB∥DC,∴∠DFA=∠BAF,∴∠DAF=∠DFA,∴AD=DF,同理BC=CE,∴DF=CE,∴DF-EF=CE-EF,即DE=FC.(2)解:∵AD=3,AB=5,∴DF=CE=3,DC=5,∴EF=1,答:EF的长是1.